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  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #2 Why Is It Autism? Ch. 1 Diagnosis & DSM-5, APPENDIX A ASD Screening Assessments, APPENDIX B PPD-NOS Pervasive Developmental Disorder.
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  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #3 What Is Most Concerning (Cont.), Ch. 2 Speech & Language Communication (Includes Nonverbal Assisted Communication, Tantrums & Meltdowns).
  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #3 What Is Most Concerning? (Cont.) Ch. 3 Cognition, Temperament & Personality .
  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #3C (Concerning & Challenging Behavior) Behavioral Support Ideas: 5Point Rating Scales, Power Cards, Social Stories, Visual Schedules What Is Most Concerning? Behavior Visual Support ideas, during challenging times.
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  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #4 When Is It Sensory? (Cont.), Ch. 2 Sensory Categories (Cont.), Part 3 SIRs, APPENDIX D Sensory Issue Assessments, APPENDIX E Stereotyped Behavior, Enhanced Perception.
  • FREE ASD BOOK UNIT #4 When Is It Sensory? (Cont.), Ch. 3 Sensory Integration. APPENDIX F Sensory Processing Scale (SPS), APPENDIX G Sample Sensory Diet.
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4/17/2025

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​Hello Everyone,
 
This month’s BLOG will continue the opportunity to view my slideshow GALLERY of Books and focus on the offered Extended Book Reviews. The slideshow shows the book covers, divided into the following categories ~

     AMAZING ADVENTURES
     DIAGNOSIS, DOCTORS, DENIAL
     SAVVY SOLUTIONS
     SCHOOL ON THE SHORT BUS
 
Hopefully, these stories will help parents, clinicians, academics, and all people #Autism, in connecting with those who have gone before us on their Autism Journey. This April's 2025 BLOG will continue to give snippets of my Extended Book Reviews; find full Extended Book Reviews on the website MENU; along with a LINK to purchase the eBook. You will find each Autism story to be engaging, compelling, and as different as each family's Autism journey.

From the Category SCHOOL ON THE SHORT BUS. Read my full Extended Book Review, with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker; plus, LINK to eBooks, on this website, www.sarasautismsite.com.​
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101 Tips for the Parents of Boys with Autism & 1,001 Tips for the Parents of Autistic Boys by Ken Siri. Extended Review with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker

Excerpts from both books – (5%/1,001 or /101 indicates location in the Kindle version of the book, instead of page numbers).
 
Excerpts from book by Ken Siri, with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker   

5%/1,001         It’s not your fault your child has autism…it never was…and it never will be.
 
4%/1,001         Do not allow yourself to journey down the road marked CURE.  Instead, travel down the road toward RECOVERY.”
 
7%/1,001     Autism is a spectrum, and all the children with autism are different.  What works for one child may not work for another.  For this reason, some of these tips may appear to be contradictory. 

4%/1,001         Parents of autistic children need to adopt the mentalities of both a researcher and a warrior.  As both general and soldier in this fight, you must take ownership of all aspects of treatment, education, therapy, and organization as if preparing for battle.
 
4%/1,001         As a warrior … you will experience the stress that accompanies battle.  Battling autism can leave one feeling devastated and alone.  You will need help and support along the way.
 
< My Thoughts >      “Don’t ignore your inner parent voice.”
 
Don’t ignore your inner parent voice… because you’re “just” a parent, and he/she is a highly esteemed professional. I can’t stress this enough!  If ‘they’ (the esteemed ‘they’…doctor, teacher, therapist, or other) are telling you everything is fine. Even hinting that the problem is with you, the overanxious parent. Or, in another situation, if you’re not happy with what educators are presenting to you as their “must do” solutions, ask for additional verification. 

3%/100            Treatments for GI issues have significantly benefited Alex and though still non-verbal, his behaviors, control and vocalizations have improved over the last two years of treatment for those GI issues.
 
31%/1,001       Children with autism as a group have notoriously poor nutrition coupled with vitamin and mineral deficiencies.  This may be due, in part; to extreme eating habits (they are notoriously picky).  Deficiencies are also likely due to the above mentioned tendency toward malabsorption.

Note: For further information on ‘Picky Eaters’, go to MENU for Know Autism, Know Your Child with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker. Read online here, under UNIT 3 – What Is Most Concerning? CHAPTER 1 – Gross & Fine Motor Skills, PART 1 – Poor Eating.

7%/1,001         
 “Don’t be afraid of the autism label, because it will help you get the services you need for your child.”

< My Thoughts >    "...the autism label..."

 
Don’t be afraid of the autism label. To get services you must have a diagnostic label and the autism (label) diagnosis gets you more of everything. 
 
As a special education teacher, and before becoming a parent of a child with autism, I felt sorry for those parents who were in denial and could not see the ‘big’ picture.  I wanted to take the parent aside and say, “Your child is so far away from hitting any developmental milestones, now or ever. Please, accept that Autism label!  Get started helping him / her!” 
 
Now on the other side of the table. The term ‘Developmental Delay’ or PDD-NOS, ‘Pervasive Developmental Delay, Not Otherwise Specified’ sounds better than Autism.  ‘Delay’ and ‘NOS’ implies that better days are right around the corner.  In the classroom, it just gives teachers a perimeter around which to confidently plan lessons and create goals for the child.  But those labels throw fear into the hearts of parents.  In many cases the child’s growth and progress is just delayed, but in other cases, important milestones may never be met, because someone refused the ‘autism’ label.

Note: For further information on ‘PDD-NOS’, go to MENU for Know Autism, Know Your Child with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker. Read online here, under UNIT 2 – Why Is It Autism? CHAPTER 1, APPENDIX B – PDD-NOS (Pervasive Developmental Disorder).

54%     Having autism does not mean your son cannot have a fulfilling life; do not allow the language of victimhood into your vocabulary.  Use empowering words that teach him that he is without limits.
 
88%     Finally, remember you will need patience and optimism in this journey.  Nobody can foretell the path your child will take and the spectrum of outcomes is broad.  Take things step-by-step, stay present, and relish each day.
 
< My Thoughts >   

These are such comprehensive books.  I have devoted only a few pages to them and only touched the surface of both books. Hope you will read them both, cover to cover. 

 
End of excerpts from these books by Ken Siri.

Thank you for reading and sharing my BLOGs. Comments are welcomed, to be viewed and answered privately. My goal is to assist families, clinicians, educators, and all people ‘autism’, to continue their journey on the Autism Highway. At the end of each website Extended Book Review, please find a source to have the whole book to read.

Regards,
Sara Luker


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    My teaching career began late in life, when most people can see retirement on the horizon. My first teaching assignment was in a public school for children with severe and profound disabilities. Looking back, I realize that along with my soon to be adopted Sonny, many of these children were on the autism spectrum. Autism was well-known in Europe at that time, but not in the United States.

    ​Hearing the words “this child has autism,” parents are often shell-shocked. Then, in the face of so many more questions racing through their minds, the doctor says, “Just go online and read everything you can about autism.” Yes, disturbingly this kind of professional advice is still given to too many of our families. Hopefully, this website material will give you a good start at finding the answers you need, while getting to Know Autism, Know Your Child, & Know Yourself.

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    Please see Section above.  This website offers viewers a Free ASD Book, a Supplementary Text, and a place to help start families, clinicians, healthcare professionals, therapists, and academics along their Autism Journey.  Know Autism, Know Your Child, & Know Yourself, with < My Thoughts > by Sara Luker.

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